Do you want to become Alpha Male? Do you want to achieve personality to attract woman instantly? This article is for you. With a to-do list and actionable recommend below, you have so many things to do from today on, so read it carefully.
This big article is separate from 2 part, so keep following until part 2 is released.
Foremost, In order to become Alpha Male, you should develop confident and high self-esteem as soon as possible. Why? Because a man doesn’t believe in himself cannot earn anything in life. You either always need approval by others to get permission to do something. Always unsure, ask a question like: “Is this Okay for me to behave like that” is a sign of lack confidence.
Make sure you develop a right kind of confidence. This is quietly confident with grounded, full of control and dominant, ability to analyze and handle situation smoothly and certainty. It’s never a overwhelmed confidence, which leads to arrogance. A guy with right confident always know his value and believe in it, promote it without seeking for approval. In contrary, arrogant is represent of trying to confident, fake behavior to cover up insecurity and lower self-esteem. Arrogance man tends to fall tremendously when facing failure because they always take it personally instead of being humiliated and learning from their mistake.
Tips for every shy guy around, using Alpha Male Affirmations to brainwashed yourself and reaching your full potential.
Once you can develop purist, natural confidence, you can stand up for yourself, conquer your fear easier, approach women without fear of rejection and earn everything you desire
Women always prefer a guy with reliable confident. They are positive, open minded who always not hesitate to show up their advantages without being creepy or fake. You can learn more how to develop your confidence here.
You’re about to live a life of the warrior, not the worrier. Just conquer your fear and get out of your comfort zone. Encourage yourself instead of afraid to make a move. Rewrite your brain to think different, focus and aware every situation that you find yourself in. When you have an ability to reframe and think fear just like door emotion when you do something new, you are able to pass through whatever fears.
You can read about how to appear confident further here
As I just mention, confidence is also built with fearless, try to overcome yourself every day. Make your fear of doing something new appear more frequently and pass through it enjoyable. Remember, everyone has their own fear and anxiety inside, our brain is configured like this, just let fear appear, but reframe yourself strong enough to not it affects you badly. Imagine fear just like a dagger with 2 edges, you can use it to hurt yourself, afraid, discourage or make it become your weapon to overcome yourself.
One thing to remember, think positive and take action instantly (planning or calculate always good, but with lower – risk and threat, it’s never a big deal). When you set your brain to the up side, your fear with full of negative risk and the threat will disappear like a smoke.
I recommend you to get out of your comfort zone and conquer your fear from today on. Be proud of this whatever results. Before action, just relax, reframe yourself, avoid to think negative outcome, literally don’t care about result (Make sure you do something valuable and good for yourself and not harming others)
Purpose is the most important factor of becoming Alpha Male, without goal and mission, your life just like racing car, strong, modernly, powerful but have nowhere to go. Each morning, wake up, frame your mission and go implement them no matter what. To answer a question how to be the alpha male, you must live with purpose inside and know what to do to survive.
For other who cannot analyze themselves to truly knowing which goals are. Just relax, take yourself out of what social have to say about you, whatever things you commit to a society, forget all of them, remember to take control of yourself 100%. Answer these question:
-What is the thing you crazy about?
-Which you can talk, research endlessly without feeling miserable?
-What is your passion, if at the moment you can move to the past, what is the most preferred path you will choose without hesitating?
When you can answer all of these questions above (forget a reality, just let your brain free to think, decide and set everything), please don’t waste any time to start to do it right now. We are the warrior, we must be the one to decide our fate and nothing worse than live your life you don’t like.
No matter how much money you learn, how bad you need this job. Your time is limited, and you cannot turn back.
After getting your great purpose, let separate it to smaller task to complete, be serious about it. Set Daily, Weekly very specific and reliable and do it anyway. Be disciplines and consistency. No excuse, be toughness and one day you will gratitude to it.
To learn how to be the alpha male, you have to stick with your Diet, avoid consuming instant, fast food, alcohol, soft drinks frequently. Your performance in life literary 100% relates to foods you consume each day. If you eat toxic food too much, you will become fat with a high ratio of bad cholesterol, soft drink with full of preservative will make your body more toxic and easy to become an illness. Consuming bad food in long term eventually lead you to cancer, diabetes, or worse, cause your death.
Make commitment from today on to avoid all of the bad food and stick with healthy Diet is the best thing you can do to step away from mediocracy and truly become Alpha Male.
Visit your doctor frequently to understand which is good for you. Make a plan to develop your testosterone level – which is very important in men’s life, affect drastically to your performance and masculinity.
Always aware of an importance of not only food you consume but also which “food” you feed your brain. Stay away from porn, masturbate, orgasm by your hand, not flesh women. Feeling excitement when seeing viral video, funny crap with literally no value.
Decide which “food” to feed your body and mind is your main goal from today on, it will become your advantage very soon.
It’s okay to be a peace-loving guy who persuasive. Who can handle everything with confidence and humor, but you also need to learn how to fight. Why? because you’re living in a crazy, insane world and nothing always gonna be easy. Sometimes you have to deal with the urgent situation. Some guy who disrespects you, don’t care about what you say, just want punch into your face directly.
To deal with this kind of jerks, only fight back and defend yourself is the best way. You’re in circumstances that you cannot use your confident and humor to solve the conflict. When it happens, you need to well-prepared, that’s why learning martial art, Boxing or Muay Thai is useful here. Learn to respond to them, strengthen your mind and certainty. Otherwise, remember to encouraging yourself to fight back instead of being nice, be bullied and throw all of your values.
(To be continued)
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