How to Flirt with a girl: Push and Pull technique


Hi, how about you,

Today I will share with you a very useful technique which I use frequently. This technique named Push and Pull. It goes deeply to woman psychology and she will feel attracted to you immediately if you do it right.

On the other hand, if your frame not strong enough, haven’t toughness enough to stand behind her comfortable, it will become robotically and creepy as hell.

What’s “Push and Pull”?

Push and Pull can be defined similarly to Play hard to get the technique. You never treat her easier and smoothly, adding some conflict, what you don’t like and what you think, rather on be nice.

Push doesn’t mean “negative” or pushing someone away. It’s simply to add some funny comment about what ‘s going wrong, not offending women and try to become her lecture.

For example, you don’t compliment her about her look but find something funny relates to her (sexually better) and talk to her in a funny way. Make sure “Funny” is about double meaning jokes without being humble or too aggressive.

One thing that most guy scare of using this Pushing because of they are afraid she will react negatively to them. In the worst scenario, she will feel hurt, reject and simply leave. The threat of rejection is eventually bigger than try to be nice. But understand, if you don’t keep her interest raise, she will feel bored very soon.

Pulling is give her a reliable compliment, not flowery. For example, you discover something interesting about her and just demonstrate to her what is your point. When you push her bad enough and pull her to you, it makes your pulling become her reward.

How to flirt with a girl? Why Push and Pull is your powerful weapon?

Actually this is a technique that most beautiful women apply on men if they realize you interested in them. You try to be nice, pursue them but always cannot reach them. They will reject you more often but never forget to pull you when you have a sign of giving up. As women, they want to attract other men, orbit them.

So always remember to apply push and pull technique during a conversation with women. Play hard to get, be consistent and congruent, natural, let her know you are a big deal, not easy to follow any of her offers. Become her challenge to not make everything easy at the beginning, and then reward her with smart, positively compliment. Actually, you let her fall down first and then raise her up, make her feel about you become fluctuation and unpredictable, it will make an attraction of you raise like skyrocketing.

To summary, Push and Pull tactic help you to add many advantages to your dating game. Firstly, It makes you become “Play hard to get” person, control all over thing about her and of course never depend on her look. You know when to let her fall down for you, and when to reward her. Women are interested in a dominant person, so that’s why it benefits you. Secondary, It changes her feeling very drastically and helps you to be unpredictable, this is one of the most important traits to build your attraction.

However, using Pushing technique in the right way is always a thing you have to take time, practice and master. Let’s approach girl more frequently and you will realize soon which is the perfect “Pushing”.


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